*if it’s not, it definitely should be!
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As grassroots coaches, and even parents of young footballers, it actually takes very little to inspire children. But, and that’s a big BUT, we’ve got to genuinely connect with the kids. A kind word, a pleasant greeting, a pat on the back, some constructive one-on-one criticism after training, checking on them after taking a knock, a little tip before the big game… small things can make a big difference. It can’t be a superficial show of affection. Mainly because children have a way of sniffing out bullshitters. What we say and do has got to come from the heart. And when it does, seeing that happy, incredibly energetic smile and being greeted super cheerfully in the morning, even though your life off the field may not be ideal, gives us more joy than any amount of money will ever do.
For grassroots football players, it’s critical for us parents and coaches to make them feel secure. Our children need to be in a space where they feel comfortable enough to make mistakes, to experiment and, critically, to be ready to fail. They need to know it’s alright to mess up while they learn from their errors. How else will you ever see the lads do something like this?
Big love to all you wonderful football coaches and parents all over the world! Have a good weekend.
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